Had my first session today! Overall it went okay, I think. I mean the client didn’t seem to have very specific ideas about what he wanted, so there was a bit of awkwardness as I tried various things, trying to figure out what pushed his buttons while still attempting to act domly. Plus every now and then my brain would kind of disassociate – “who is this guy and why is he sucking on my toes?” kind of thing. I kept having to remind myself to focus. In fairness, I was running on way too little sleep so even mundane everyday shit seemed surreal like that.
The client himself was an absolute sweetheart – respectful of boundaries and adorably nervous. He’d said he wanted office roleplay, foot worship, bondage, and ass play, so I conjured up a whole thing where I was an HR person and he was a team leader who’d had complaints about his overbearing management style. The session was about me teaching him a lesson in humility by making him crawl at my feet, etc. He mostly let the roleplay part slide, though, and I was unsure if I should drop that facade too or if he was expecting me to maintain it. So I somewhat waffled back and forth between just being myself and throwing out the odd token line about office culture. 😛
When I told my headmistress afterward about the roleplay part kinda slipping, she said she feels like a lot of dudes say they want roleplay because they think it’s expected, but really most of the time they just want the domme to wear a certain outfit and do certain activities – they don’t actually give a shit about context. She also says she suspects a lot of guys think that roleplay is something a domme just does to them – it doesn’t occur to the guys that they actually have to contribute. Apparently it’s pretty standard for pro domme clients to claim they want role play and then basically forget the whole premise within five minutes. So that explains a lot.
Small awkwardnesses aside, the client seemed suuuuuper happy at the end of the session and gave me profuse thank-yous and compliments. It was probably the best first experience I could have asked for.
And now I have $150 I did not have this morning.