It suddenly occurs to me that toys like the Realdoe and the Share work way better for solo play than other kinds of insertables do, for me. I don’t usually crave penetration to go with my wanking, but when I do, it’s really g-spot stimulation I want – and pulling upward on the cock end of the Realdoe is about a thousand times better for that than sliding something phallic in and out of me. Plus the angle is easier on my wrist(s).
Y’know what would be awesome? A female masturbation toy that was basically like the Realdoe without the penis – just the bulb-end and the crotch-cradling part. Then I could insert the bulb and rock my hand against the “cradle”, simultaneously stimulating my insides and my outsides. Why is there nothing like this on the market?
In other news, I ended up wearing the Realdoe around the house for like two hours or more. I found myself really enjoying the weight and feel of it inside me – I only took it out because the penis was getting in the way of laptopping, cooking, etc. I’ve never been interested in ben-wa balls before, but I’m starting to wonder if I might like them: all the internal weight and clenching, none of the constant making-sure-my-protruding-dick-doesn’t-smack-into-things-or-get-burned-on-the-stove.